Hey, we're all just offering our own personal opinions as they relate to the questions posed, while everyone seems to acting like they're "right" and I'm "wrong".
"Oh don't be ridiculous." "Are you really saying that.." "Almost everything has to adapt and grow to succeed.", etc.
There is no right or wrong here, and while I have seen niche endeavors thrive when they've gone more mainstream, but I've also seen a lot die out out or become inconsequential when their niche appeal disappears. If you're opening up the barndoors, you better be sure you can compete, as you will lose users on the other end.
If there is one thing I wish we had more of here, it's patience. Why not give it time, see how the site evolves, and what kind of place the users create? Everything is bam, bam, bam, why aren't there more people? Everyone needs to post more! How can we grow the site faster!!! Sell, sell, sell!!!
Damn, that's stress central for me. A user forum should be the exact opposite, a place where we can go to talk, share stories, and relax.