Yes it is him but no puking, no seasick, they have been around water their whole life, Pool and vacations so they don't get sick on water.
He was looking at the fish, in his earlier years he wanted to become a marine biologist.
Well that's good. Usually you see someone sitting on the edge like that its because they're chumming for fish, haha.
When we visited Negril one kid that looked like he was 10 asked me for a dollar. At first I said no but he kept chatting and seemed like a nice kid so I gave him 10 bucks. He ran back home and minutes later the bus was surrounded by kids and then the teenagers came, we quickly began to feel quite uncomfortable and walked across the street back into the tourist bar. We then waited for the bus driver before we returned to the bus.
If I was by myself I would not have been as worried but my kids were there and I wanted to assure we all stayed safe.
That said, everyone we met was polite and they cater to tourists like crazy but you have not seen poverty until you see how some of these poor folks live. We give 5 bucks to every single person that helps us at the resort. Five bucks is a lot to them and now we cannot go anywhere without being asked if we need something. I brought $500 in fives and that is rapidly depleting. Your heart goes out to them and you feel you should do more but I don't think anyone goes hungry.
I've heard similar stories about Jamaica - to the point where people are scared or at least quite uncomfortable. That's one reason I've never really wanted to go there, but also its a long trip from BC, by that point we'd rather just go to Hawaii or Mexico or Europe. Not that Mexico doesn't have its issues either though.
We all realize though that the average person there is very grateful for any help, so we do try to do our part. This past November we had a room that faced the ocean on one side but the hall corridor was open aired and looked over a side street where employees would come and go via a large touring style bus. They'd have to wait in line to get out, everyone got the metal detector wand treatment, had to open their bags and purses, etc... It was quite the process. Definitely makes you feel bad for these people. But I guess I also understand why the resort was doing that. Unfortunately as is true anywhere and everywhere, there are always a few bad apples that ruin it for everyone one else.
Personally, when in resorts like that in MX, I go the $1 route per person per interaction, for anything & everything, with occasional splurges of more for exceptional service or friendliness or whatever. If my waiter never stops by to refill drinks, etc, he gets the minimum (which never happens), but more for someone who stopped by frequently. Its enough that it gets you good service and they're always coming back but not enough to attract the attention you got. And those interactions total up way more per day than you'd probably think. So planning for 100 interactions isn't going to be enough, and at $5 per interaction, that was certainly very generous on your part, but you're gonna run out of fives!
One year we had this great waiter down in Cabo bringing drinks poolside and a friend we were there with was a VP of Sales for an oil & gas services company. He asked the waiter if he wanted to come to Canada with his family and come work for him in sales - and he was serious. The waiter was like how much? My friend said I'll start you at $100K and the waiter just laughed and said I make more than that here, so thanks but no thanks! And when you think about it, that's like $50/hour and each tray they carry probably has 5-10 drinks at $1 tip for each drink. It's really not out of the realm of possibility to earn that for someone that hustles and has a good personality, humour helps a ton too.
Yesterday the guy on the beach reached into the lobster trap, gutted the poor thing and had it roasted and ready for his dinner in under 10 minutes. They toss a line in the ocean and catch a fish, easy supper.
Jeez, I think I want to be that guy, that's the kind of experience I would actually love, to me that would be relaxing. My wife likes the security of a resort, but I'd like to rent a modest place near the beach for a month, wander down to the beach and angle or spearfish my food each day (failing that a nice walk to the market), come home and cook up a fresh simple meal, rinse and repeat. That'd be the perfect vacay for me.